When it comes to funerals, there are a lot of misconceptions out there. A lot of families come in unsure of what their options really are, often based on things they’ve heard over the years. Let’s clear up a few of the most common myths we hear.

Myth #1: Funeral homes automatically embalm
A lot of families think embalming happens automatically, but that’s not how it works. Embalming is not always required, and whether it’s necessary depends on the type of service, timing, and state regulations. Funeral homes will always discuss the services you plan to have. This conversation helps guide recommendations, including whether embalming is needed based on the type of service your family is choosing.

Myth #2: You can’t have a service if you choose cremation
Some families think cremation limits their options for a service, but that’s not the case. Choosing cremation doesn’t mean you cannot—or do not want to—have a service. Many families choose cremation services have a full traditional service with visitation, with cremation taking place afterward, or a memorial service, gathering, or celebration of life either before or after cremation. The service can be just as meaningful and personal as a traditional funeral.

Myth #3: Funerals are all the same

Years ago, services may have followed a strict format, but today families have much more flexibility. Services can be religious or non-religious, formal or casual, and completely tailored to reflect a person’s life, personality, and wishes.

Myth #4: You have to decide everything right away
Planning a funeral can feel completely overwhelming, and yes, there are some decisions that need to be made quickly—but not everything has to be decided immediately. We would never want to ask a family for decisions they’re not ready to make. It’s okay to take a day or so to collect your thoughts.

Every family is different. Some want to discuss dates for services during the initial conversation, while others need a little more time before even scheduling an arrangement conference. What’s most important is that you feel confident in your decisions. Sitting down with a funeral director will help guide you in your options and explain processes to help make those difficult decisions.

Myth #5: Pre-planning is only for the elderly

Pre-planning isn’t about age—it’s about peace of mind. Unexpected situations can happen at any time, and having plans in place can ease the burden on your loved ones. Many people choose to pre-plan simply to make things easier for their family and ensure their wishes are honored.