Memorials may be made to Father Gettinger's Charities, Masses, or American Heart Association. Virginia A. Wilmes, of St. Charles, Missouri, died on Sunday, September 13, 2009 at the age of 77. Loving wife of James Henry Wilmes; devoted mother of Patricia (Stephen) Veit, John (Sandra) Wilmes, Doug (Susan) Wilmes, and Edward (Barbara) Wilmes; and cherished grandmother of 14. Virginia was formerly employed as a Registered Nurse.