Robert James Fichtenmayer

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June 2, 1937 - October 15, 2020
Born in St. Louis, MO
Resided in St. Charles, MO

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Fichtenmayer, Robert James; St. Charles, MO, October 15, 2020.

Age 83; preceded in death by; dear wife Verna Fichtenmayer (nee Shoults); His parents; Nellie and Charles Fichtenmayer; dear father of Patricia Gryncajger, Margaret Fielder (Rick), Barbara Ferrario (Greg), Kathryn Martin and David Fichtenmayer (Sandy); brother of the late Mary Ann, Esther, Elizabeth, Charles, Lydia, George, Joseph, Elmer and Buddy; beloved Grandfather of Stefan, Beth (Isaias), Robert (Shawna), Kimmy (Jimmy), Becky, Emily (Nate), Brian, Billy, Allyss, Chris (Amy), Michelle, and Matthew; Great-Grandfather of Juan, Isaias, Devin, Trinity, Miguel, Araceli, Nicholas, Gavin, Keili, Alana, Kacey, Miriam, Asher, Maddax, Simon, Robert Jr., Rowand, Ryker, Hawthorn and Dominic; beloved Father-in-Law, Uncle, Brother-in-Law, Cousin and Dear Friend.

Memorial contributions may be made in Bob’s honor to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

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  1. Jim and Arlene Kendrick October 17, 2020 at 7:28 pm - Reply

    We will miss you and cherish you forever. Love Jim and Arlene

    • Kitty November 1, 2020 at 4:04 pm - Reply

      Thank you so much. You guys meant the world to Dad. He missed playing cards with you. We will all miss him very much. Thanks again for your kind thoughts and prayers.

      Pat, Margie, Barb, Kitty and Dave

  2. david kendrick October 17, 2020 at 8:09 pm - Reply

    You will be missed, you helped so many people and could always be counted on. I’m thankful to have known such a big hearted man. Rest in Peace and condolences to the family.

    • Kitty November 1, 2020 at 4:05 pm - Reply

      Thank you so much. We will all miss him very much. Thanks again for your kind thoughts and prayers.

      Pat, Margie, Barb, Kitty and Dave

  3. Diane Morton October 19, 2020 at 8:30 pm - Reply

    Dear Pat, Kitty, Margaret, Barb and Dave — we are so sorry to hear your Dad was sick and that he left before we could see him again. I have many wonderful memories of his kindness to our family. He always sent us a Christmas card and made our kids feel like they were some of his grandkids when we attended family reunions and played baseball. My last memory is the big smile he had while we gathered at the lake this summer. He was always ready to spend time with friends and family. We will surely miss him. Our love, DJJ

  4. Laura Wohlschlaeger October 20, 2020 at 11:21 pm - Reply

    candle 1Our Dear Uncle Bob will always have a special place In our hearts!
    Uncle Bob, I will miss your smiles and your stories aboit the memories of growing up.
    No more Sorrow, No more Pain…
    Our Loss is Heaven’s Gain.
    RIP Uncle Bob!
    You will be Greatly missed!

  5. Carolyn Roderick October 21, 2020 at 1:38 pm - Reply

    candle 1Bob you were such a nice neighbor, Tigger and I are going to miss you so much, our morning walks will never be the same. Thank you for the friendship, and Tigger thanks you for letting him run all over your feet and yard. I’m sure going to miss my friend.

    • Kitty November 1, 2020 at 4:09 pm - Reply

      Thank you so much. You guys were great neighbors to him and we appreciate you watching out for him. I know he really loved Tigger. He talked about him all the time. We will all miss him very much. Thanks again for your kind thoughts and prayers.

      Pat, Margie, Barb, Kitty and Dave

  6. Susan Marler October 21, 2020 at 10:03 pm - Reply

    candle 2Bob you will be truly missed, Now your in Gods Arms. God Bless the whole Family.

    Susan Marler

    • Kitty November 1, 2020 at 4:14 pm - Reply

      Thanks Sue. We appreciate your thoughts and prayers. He definitely will be missed. Thank you so much.

      Pat, Margie, Barb, Kitty and Dave

  7. Allyss Martin October 23, 2020 at 11:06 am - Reply

    candle 6Words are hard to come by during this time of grief. We are grieving the passing of a great family man, my Grandpa Bob. I had the pleasure of living with him during the summer of ’09 and am so thankful for that special time we shared together. He taught me important things like keeping the bathroom door shut, not sitting in his favorite recliner, eating breakfast sausages until I’m full and not being a “lazy bum” all day. My Grandpa loved us, his family and although we are all devastated by his departure, we are hopeful that he and my beautiful Grandma Verna are reunited once again. I wish I could attend the viewing, but I just want you to know that I’m thinking of you Mom, Aunt Pat, Aunt Margie, Aunt Barb and Uncle David. I hope this will bring our family even closer as we navigate the sorrow of losing such a pillar as Grandpa was. May we carry on his legacy of love, laughter and tickling too hard. All my love, Allyss Martin

    • Kitty November 1, 2020 at 4:17 pm - Reply

      Thanks sweetie! Grandpa loved you very much and we all have lots of memories to hold close to our hearts. We will all miss him very much. Thanks again for your kind thoughts and prayers.

      Aunt Pat, Aunt Margie, Aunt Barb, Mom and Uncle Dave

  8. Michele Lada November 4, 2020 at 8:43 pm - Reply

    candle 5I will miss the best uncle ever. I will miss his stories of my mom Lydia that he always told me. I will always miss his checking up on me phone calls to make sure I was doing ok and at the end of our phone calls he always told me he loved me. He never missed sending me a birthday card and Kenny too. He never missed our anniversary either. Kenny always said he wanted us to have a happy marriage like the greatest couple ever. That is uncle Bob and aunt Verna. We will always have you in our hearts and miss you’d so much

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